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How nuttr works

See nuttr from the inside.

Every form, every field, and the charts each one unlocks. No fluff — just what you tap and what you get back.

Step 1

"What happened?"

Three quick forms cover the entire life of a connection — every date, every nut, every new person you start seeing.

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Add date

Woman
Sara
Date
Tue, Apr 16
Total cost
$84.00
Location
Bar Centro
Fun rating
Add date

Log a date

Capture spend, location, and the vibe in under 30 seconds. Itemise the bill or just throw in a total.

What you fill in
  • Who you were with
  • Date
  • Total cost (or itemised)
  • Location
  • Fun rating (1–5)
  • Notes & optional 'also log a nut'
What it powers
  • Per-woman & total spend
  • Monthly burn chart
  • History feed
  • CPN updates instantly
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Log nut

Woman
Sara
Date
Tue, Apr 16
Number of nuts
2
Experience
😐
🙂
😍
🤯
Log nut

Log a nut

The other half of the equation. One screen, four taps, done.

What you fill in
  • Who
  • When
  • Count (+/-)
  • Experience emoji (1–4)
  • Notes
What it powers
  • CPN denominator updates
  • Nuts per month chart
  • Experience trend
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Add woman

S
Name
Sara
Age
28
Nationality
🇪🇸 Spain
Attachment style
Secure
Anxious
Avoidant
Unclear
Started dating
Mar 4, 2025
Add woman

Add a woman

One profile per person you're seeing. Light on fields, rich on context.

What you fill in
  • Name
  • Age
  • Nationality flag
  • Attachment style (optional)
  • Start / end dates
What it powers
  • Per-woman dashboard
  • Compatibility leaderboard slot
  • Eligible for Relationship Mode
Step 2

Compatibility questionnaire

Triggered after meaningful interactions. Rotating Gottman-aligned metrics, plus red-flag and attachment checks once you know her better.

Compatibility · Session 3

How was Sara today?

Banter & humour
How well did the conversation flow?
110
8
Red flag check
Any contempt or stonewalling today?
No
Yes
Attachment behaviour
🟢Secure
🟠Anxious
🔵Avoidant
Unclear
Post-date scoring

Rate what just happened

One session per day per partner. Two or three sliders, a red-flag check, and (from session 3) an attachment observation. Takes a minute.

What you fill in
  • 1–10 ratings on rotating metrics
  • Red-flag checks (contempt, etc.)
  • Attachment observation (session 3+)
  • Optional notes
What it powers
  • Early & Long-term compatibility scores
  • Banding pill (Strong / Mixed / Warning)
  • Dealbreaker flag
  • Ranking vs. other women
  • Score-trend line
Step 3 · Relationship Mode

Weekly Gottman prompt

One prompt a week, drawn from Love Maps and the Sound Relationship House. A small ritual that quietly compounds.

Weekly check-in · Week 12

Sara · Relationship Mode

Love Maps
How well do you know what's currently stressing her at work?
Not at allDeeply
1
2
3
4
5
Last 8 weeks
Weekly check-in

One prompt. One minute.

Each week a new question — communication, fondness, shared dreams. Answer on a 1–5 scale or pick from options. See the last 8 weeks at a glance.

What you fill in
  • One Gottman-style prompt / week
  • Scale 1–5 or multiple choice
  • Optional reflection note
What it powers
  • Weekly engagement timeline
  • Trajectory chart context
  • Personalised education cards
  • Decision-readiness signal
Step 4 · Relationship Mode

Bi-weekly health checklist

Every 14 days, a 30-second tap-through of the Four Horsemen — the patterns Gottman's research shows predict breakup with 90%+ accuracy.

Bi-weekly health check

Four Horsemen

Anything you noticed in the last 14 days?

Criticism
Attacking character vs. behavior
Contempt
Mockery, sarcasm, name-calling
Defensiveness
Counter-attacking when called out
Stonewalling
Withdrawing, shutting down
None of the above
Four Horsemen

Catch the patterns early

Tick anything you've noticed in the last 14 days — or 'None of the above'. Three flagged checks in a row triggers a warning banner so you can course-correct before drift becomes damage.

What you fill in
  • Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling
  • Optional context note
What it powers
  • Health-warning banner (3 in a row)
  • Health-check timeline
  • Contempt-specific alert
  • Targeted education cards
The payoff

What you unlock

Every tap above feeds the views below. Start with one form — the rest light up as data accumulates.

Line
CPN over time
How your cost per nut moves week-to-week.
Bar
Spend by woman
Where your money is actually going.
Bar
Nuts per month
Your monthly volume, no spin.
List
Compatibility leaderboard
Ranked by long-term score.
RM
Trajectory chart
Where the relationship is heading.
RM
Health-check timeline
Four-horsemen flags over time.

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